Wednesday, June 08, 2005

Mi pobrecita...

Y'all, I'm upset.

I thought the Bore was bad, on SB's blog. Apparently he has a sister under the skin. My poor wife is crying; she feels so violated. And others are going to.

She's staying late tonight because she and her supervisor are trying to figure out what to do about this.

Someone violated the "no cameraphones or digital cameras" policy in her gym. Aimed it at her. It is, no doubt about it, her distinctive little body on that site, with her distinctively tattooed arm, even though it's from the back. It's supposed to be a "celebration" of punk/Goth girls. You don't fucking "celebrate" someone by violating them!

The thing is, my L'Ailee is not shy about sharing her physical beauty. All of us women know what she looks like naked. But she wasn't asked to be photographed, or have her lovely dorsal view displayed for people to see on the internet. Even if she'd been *asked*, she'd feel better, but she wasn't.

As she put it, "I am proud of our living room, but I would be angry if someone took a picture through the window while we were out..."

And of course, she may not be the only one at that gym, and we don't know which woman took the picture. Once they do find out, her ass is bounced from the gym, of course.

I do not understand how a woman can do that to another. I do not understand why they didn't even *ask*.

All I know is that when she gets home, I'm going to hug her so hard. :'-(

8 comments:

scribble said...

I am so very sorry this was done to both of you.
This is as much a violation as an assault.
yes... hold her tight.
Tell her there are sisters out here who truly care.

CrackerLilo said...

Thank you. It hurts to think of something so beautiful being treated like that.

Blessed be.

Jojo said...

I'm sorry too Cracker - how horrible. How in the world did you find out this was on the web? Did someone see it and tell you?

CrackerLilo said...

A male co-worker who is partial to that kind of thing (sexy nekkid Goth girls), but who treats her like his tomboy kid sister, asked her about it. If the nicely shaped bald head and pale skin didn't establish who it was to anyone who knows her, the tattoos, which are very distinctive, would have. She is also wearing her engagement ring, which is also distinctive and matches mine.

Blessed be.

Qivan said...

So Cracker, someone took pictures of your wife naked, is that what happened. That's terrible, can you sue?

CrackerLilo said...

Yeah, two naked pictures, from the back. My wife is not modest by any definition--she has literally set fashions for "bikini-line" grooming in that locker room--but she still feels violated by the display of the pictures without her knowledge, and sickened by the idea that it could have happened to someone else. She's not so much interested in suing as in finding who did it and keeping it from happening again.

Blessed be!

Blogzie said...

Big Hugs to both of you!

My gosh, what is wrong with people?

CrackerLilo said...

I don't know, but I'm updating about it.

Thanks for the hugs.

Blessed be!